Friday, August 7, 2009

Anniversary

My younger sister and her husband celebrate their
5th wedding anniversary today.

Missy & Chad - August 2004

Chad is a comfortable old soul.
He and Missy (a comfortable, high-powered, organized soul)
met on a blind date in 2002,
but it feels as if he has never not been a part of our family.
Likewise for Henry, even though he's only 11 months old.

It's as if the 1 were always 2 were always 3.

They make an excellent team.

Henry, Chad & Missy hiking in Butte, MT - July 2009

The traditional 5th Anniversary gift is wood.

This family of lovely souls live in metro Minneapolis-St. Paul and, naturally, this sister forgot to send them any sort of greetings for this milestone and certainly is not, today, Fed Exing to them shingles or figurines or, as this website recommends,
a Bonsai Tree.

So instead, I paste here some wisdom from the Indigo Girls.

(from 1994's Swamp Ophelia,
from "the wood song" by Emily Saliers)


.... now I see we're in the boat in two by twos

only the heart that we have for a tool we could use

and the very close quarters are hard to get used to

love weighs the hull down with its weight

but the wood is tired and the wood is old

and we'll make it fine if the weather holds

but if the weather holds then we'll have missed the point

that's were i need to go

no way construction of this tricky plan

was built by other than a greater hand

with a love that passes all our understanding

watching closely over the journey

yeah but what it takes to cross the great divide

seems more than all the courage i can muster up inside

but we get to have some answers when we reach the other side

the prize is always worth the rocky ride

sometimes i ask to sneak a closer look

skip to the final chapter of the book

and maybe steer us clear from some of the pain that it took

to get us where we are this far

but the question drowns in its futility

and even i have got to laugh at me

cause no one gets to miss the storm of what will be

just holding on for the ride

the wood is tired the wood is old

and we'll make it fine if the weather holds

but if the weather holds then we'll have missed the point

that's where i need to go


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