Yesterday, I spent a few moments during that hour checking my personal e-mail -- including, of course, OKC. In my time online I received the 4 following instant message requests.
Man #1 - 4:01 pm
(age 68, Collinswood NJ)
Man #1: are you looking for casual sex?Oh. Of course. Thanks for asking.
Man #2 - 4:07 pm
(age 22, Hengelo, Netherlands)
Man #2: damn sexy ladyImagine here a brief, varied exchange regarding what kind of shoes I liked. (Why not?) Which turned into a question about what color bra I was wearing. Which was the moment I looked at his profile to see how old he was. Which meant that I then needed to say
Man #2: and what makes you feel sexy? clothing? heel? lingerie?
Karin: I've got someone here talking to me, got to go.Man #3 - 4:54 pm
Man #2: thats a pitty (sic)
(age 49, Carlisle, Mass)
Ah. The old-fashioned approach to a girl's heart.
Man #3: great movie, "Tootsie"Indeed.
Man #4 - 4:57 pm
Man #4 only said "howdy."
But Man #4 is 15 years older than me and lives in Lyndhurst, NJ. Which makes us perfect for each other.
For those of you still all misty-eyed about the online dating approach .... just sharing the scene.