This applies to anything: to weird food likes, to careers in questionable fields, to drug use, extracurricular sex lives, and one's decision to judge others if one feels like it. Mostly because, despite my relatively open nature, I can't help but judge even when it goes against my own mantra.
(And it is my mantra, damn-it.)
That said: what is it with folks and feet? Admittedly, I have an Inexplicable Need to Take Pictures of Them, as you well know. But I would never pick a partner or a friend to be my partner or friend based on what their feet did or didn't look like,or if they liked me to touch their feet in a certain way or not, and I don't think I would ever choose to use it as a pick-up line.
Nonetheless, from a 40-y-old Bostonian on OKCupid recently, a couple hellos (in their entireties) to my inbox:
Yesterday: "This is a lovely message."In hiw writeup, he mentions nothing of any special foot requests or indications of why that might be important to him. However, 1 of his 2 profile photos is a shot of a pair of black-haired shins, connected to feet in bright green socks printed with cartoon characters, without explanatory caption.
Today: "Do you have beautiful feet?"
I'm curious what tomorrow will bring.
And I still don't get it.