(Yes, that is a bit of a wind-around sentence .... my brain is in a bit of wind-around mode today.)
Despite not having attended to my HAW profile or solicited the profiles of men who are attending to theirs -- although I wouldn't rule it out -- I am often amused by these advice articles and how spot-on and only mildly sarcastic they are. Today's by Chiara Atik, particularly, made me dig into the link:
"The 9 Most Annoying Things to Say To A Single Person"
"The good thing about being single is that people are usually pretty willing to talk about your romantic life, because, let's face it, it's probably more entertaining than that of your seriously coupled-up friends. The bad news?Well, I certainly confess to having put my love life on the front burner whether or not other people are in the mood to hear about it or not. And have left myself equally open to opinions and questions, which will infrequently annoy me and then make me feel like I shouldn't be annoyed, because I did put my life on the front burner.
"Sometimes, people will want to talk about your love life regardless of whether or not you're in the mood to talk about it. And they will have opinions. And questions...
Nonetheless, today I only print Ms. Atik's questions for your amusement. Here are my favorite 3 of 9; the rest are behind the bold-faced link above:
"Are you seeing someone? Why not?"
Amazingly, I get this question at least once a week. At least once a week! It's fun to turn the question around to the asker. "Why are you in a relationship?" "Because I'm in love!" "Right, well, I'm not." End of discussion!
"You need to put yourself out there more!"
Out where, exactly? [Whenever some helpful soul suggests this to me, I immediately picture myself in the middle of some crowded piazza, waving my arms around, saying "yooo-hoooo!"]
"Why don't you join a group?"
It's a common misconception for people to think you're single because you just don't have enough hobbies.